[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/bude-partnermanzel-dobrym-otcom\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/bude-partnermanzel-dobrym-otcom\/","headline":"Bude partner\/man\u017eel dobr\u00fdm otcom?","name":"Bude partner\/man\u017eel dobr\u00fdm otcom?","description":"Ke\u010f za\u010dnete randi\u0165 so svoj\u00edm priate\u013eom, ste v\u00a0stave za\u013e\u00fabenia a\u00a0v\u0161etko na va\u0161om drahom sa v\u00e1m zd\u00e1 \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. Po p\u00e1r mesiacoch a\u00a0rokoch, ke\u010f sa schy\u013euje ku svadbe, si hovor\u00edte, \u017ee u\u017e pozn\u00e1te jeho dobr\u00e9 i\u00a0zl\u00e9 str\u00e1nky a\u00a0dok\u00e1\u017eete s\u00a0nimi \u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0dobrom i\u00a0v\u00a0zlom. No pr\u00eddu na rad povinnosti be\u017en\u00fdch dn\u00ed, zrejme i\u00a0hypot\u00e9ka a\u00a0ak e\u0161te na ne doposia\u013e nepri\u0161lo, […]","datePublished":"2019-07-05","dateModified":"2023-04-26","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"dswash.sk","url":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"dswash.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304675_w16502_t1565886534.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a304675_w16502_t1565886534.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/bude-partnermanzel-dobrym-otcom\/","about":["Deti"],"wordCount":684,"articleBody":"Ke\u010f za\u010dnete randi\u0165 so svoj\u00edm priate\u013eom, ste v\u00a0stave za\u013e\u00fabenia a\u00a0v\u0161etko na va\u0161om drahom sa v\u00e1m zd\u00e1 \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. Po p\u00e1r mesiacoch a\u00a0rokoch, ke\u010f sa schy\u013euje ku svadbe, si hovor\u00edte, \u017ee u\u017e pozn\u00e1te jeho dobr\u00e9 i\u00a0zl\u00e9 str\u00e1nky a\u00a0dok\u00e1\u017eete s\u00a0nimi \u017ei\u0165 v\u00a0dobrom i\u00a0v\u00a0zlom. No pr\u00eddu na rad povinnosti be\u017en\u00fdch dn\u00ed, zrejme i\u00a0hypot\u00e9ka a\u00a0ak e\u0161te na ne doposia\u013e nepri\u0161lo, tak aj deti. Mo\u017eno ste si ho aj \u201cotestovali\u201c, \u010di to vie s\u00a0de\u0165mi alebo sa im vyh\u00fdba ako \u010dert vode. Av\u0161ak na realitu a\u00a0vlastn\u00e9 deti sa nem\u00f4\u017eete vopred pripravi\u0165 ani sama, nieto e\u0161te v\u00e1\u0161ho bud\u00faceho man\u017eela. Ak niekedy tr\u00e1vil pr\u00e1zdniny so synovcami, \u010di neterami, s\u00a0de\u0165mi na kr\u00fa\u017ekoch alebo robil dokonca ved\u00faceho v\u00a0t\u00e1bore \u2013 m\u00e1 plusov\u00e9 body. No povedzme si \u00faprimne, ak ho \u013e\u00fabite, na ni\u010d ho sk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165 nebudete. A\u00a0hodnoti\u0165 potenci\u00e1l jeho otcovskej str\u00e1nky pre va\u0161u bud\u00facu gener\u00e1ciu v\u00e1s ani nenapadne. Realita i\u00a0tak dok\u00e1\u017ee zasko\u010di\u0165. \u010ci u\u017e mal v\u0161etky predpoklady alebo sa v\u00e1m zdal ako \u00fapln\u00fd antitalent na otcovsk\u00e9 povinnosti.Nie je v\u0161ak zriedkav\u00e9, \u017ee ani\u00a0\u017eeny, k\u00fdm s\u00fa bezdetn\u00e9, si netr\u00fafaj\u00fa na manipul\u00e1ciu s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom. \u00c1no, vozi\u0165 v\u00a0ko\u010d\u00edku, prihovori\u0165 sa, k\u00fdm je v\u00a0n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed maminky, to by \u0161lo. Ale ako ho popestova\u0165 alebo e\u0161te dokonca prebali\u0165, to je nezn\u00e1ma oblas\u0165. A\u00a0predsa pr\u00edchodom vlastn\u00e9ho die\u0165atka na svet sa akosi za\u010dne vyn\u00e1ra\u0165 materinsk\u00fd pud a\u00a0po prv\u00fdch nesmel\u00fdch pohyboch\/dotykoch to u\u017e ide samo. S\u00a0prv\u00fdm str\u00e1ven\u00fdm \u010dasom s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom a\u00a0\u010derstvou mami\u010dkou doma sa tomu v\u0161etk\u00e9mu pri\u00fa\u010da aj otecko. Mil\u00e9 mami\u010dky, ur\u010dite \u201cneodstrkujte\u201c od pr\u00e1ce s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom ani v\u00e1\u0161ho man\u017eela\/partnera. I\u00a0on si tak vytv\u00e1ra s\u00a0n\u00edm puto. \u010cudovali by ste sa ako napr\u00edklad kr\u00e1sne vie ut\u00ed\u0161i\u0165 alebo uspa\u0165 mal\u00e9ho drobca. Samozrejme, ke\u010f vy ste u\u017e na konci so silami, je fajn, ke\u010f pr\u00edde niekto s\u00a0\u010derstv\u00fdmi silami.Nie je na \u0161kodu si prizna\u0165, \u017ee starostlivos\u0165 o\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tko je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e1 a\u00a0pasova\u0165 sa s\u00a0t\u00fdm spolu. Vtedy nem\u00e1 \u010das otecko poveda\u0165, \u017ee sa c\u00edti odstr\u010den\u00fd v\u00a0novo vzniknutej rodinnej situ\u00e1cii. I\u00a0ke\u010f \u00e1no, oni sa po v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu d\u0148a musia postara\u0165 o\u00a0zabezpe\u010denie rodiny,\u00a0dr\u00fa sa v\u00a0robote a\u00a0na zap\u00e1janie sa do starostlivosti o\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tko nezost\u00e1va ve\u013ea \u010dasu. Ale vo\u013en\u00e9 v\u00edkendy treba tr\u00e1vi\u0165 spolo\u010dne a\u00a0vychutn\u00e1va\u0165 si v\u0161etky radosti i\u00a0starosti t\u00fdchto dn\u00ed. Preto\u017ee ko\u013eko kr\u00e1t sa podar\u00ed pre\u017ei\u0165 t\u00fato \u010darovn\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru? Mo\u017eno e\u0161te raz alebo dvakr\u00e1t? Dni tak ne\u00faprosne utekaj\u00fa,\u00a0a\u017e n\u00e1m ostan\u00fa len spomienky a\u00a0fotky na tieto kr\u00e1sne chv\u00edle. U\u017e nik nebude myslie\u0165 na tie prebden\u00e9 noci, na mno\u017estvo plienok, na ka\u0161i\u010dky, ktor\u00e9 skon\u010dili vo vlasoch a\u00a0v\u0161ade naokolo (ak tak u\u017e len s\u00a0\u00fasmevom). Ove\u013ea viac v\u0161ak na prv\u00e9 \u00fasmevy, \u0161tvorno\u017ekovanie, \u010di prv\u00e9 \u0161ibalstv\u00e1. Treba s\u00a0b\u00e1b\u00e4tkom tr\u00e1vi\u0165 \u010das u\u017e od narodenia a\u00a0nie \u010daka\u0165, k\u00fdm bude m\u00f4c\u0165 beha\u0165 alebo hra\u0165 futbal. Darmo ni\u010d nepovie, ale vytv\u00e1ra si s\u00a0oboma rodi\u010dmi vz\u0165ah, citov\u00fa v\u00e4zbu a\u00a0pam\u00e4t\u00e1 si, \u017ee u\u00a0oboch n\u00e1jde ochranu, pokojn\u00e9 pr\u00edstre\u0161ie a\u00a0m\u00f4\u017ee sa k\u00a0nim spokojne prit\u00fali\u0165.Nesk\u00f4r, ke\u010f u\u017e bude cupita\u0165 svojimi mal\u00fdmi n\u00f4\u017ekami, bude s ve\u013ekou rados\u0165ou be\u017ea\u0165 do n\u00e1ru\u010dia ocka, ke\u010f pr\u00edde z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce. Te\u0161i\u0165 sa jeho n\u00e1vratu domov. Je to ten najkraj\u0161\u00ed poh\u013ead, ktor\u00fd m\u00f4\u017ee matka vidie\u0165.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        5\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Bude partner\/man\u017eel dobr\u00fdm otcom?","item":"https:\/\/www.dswash.sk\/bude-partnermanzel-dobrym-otcom\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]